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		<title>Hockey is life #2: keep your head up</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 17:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Foster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lessons from hockey.  To celebrate the beginning of a new season on the ice, this is the second in a series of posts on life lessons I've learned from the sport of hockey.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hockey is fast-paced and always in motion, so nothing stays in one place for long.  Once you get a solid sense of yourself on skates, you quickly learn to pay attention to what&#8217;s going on around you.  If you don&#8217;t, you get a teeth jarring reminder of this lesson to <strong>always keep your head up</strong>!  <a title="YouTube-hardest hockey hit ever" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4MKtA_nJLbc" target="_blank">Watch this example</a> of a professional player getting caught with his head down for the &#8220;worst case scenario&#8221;.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-418" title="hard hit" src="http://jfconnex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/hard-hit.jpg" alt="hard hit" width="387" height="476" /> But keeping your head up is about more than staying safe, it&#8217;s the key to great timing and pattern recognition.  When you pay close attention to what&#8217;s going on around you in hockey, you find opportunities to take control of the game and score points.  When you aren&#8217;t keeping an eye on the whole game, you are relegated to following the play and chasing after the other team.</p>
<p>When you keep your head up in regular life, you notice things that others don&#8217;t see, and make stronger connections with others.  Most people I know really appreciate a good listener or someone who understands and empathizes with them.  You have to be outside of yourself and look for signals from those around you to time your interactions well.</p>
<p><strong>Some ways to keep your head up in daily life:</strong></p>
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<li>Make eye contact with people you pass in the hall.</li>
<li>Pay attention to metrics and indicators of your performance.</li>
<li>Ask what others think in every conversation you have.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t text while driving!</li>
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